If ever a time I need thee....

TRINIty7806 · Posted: Thu Nov 30, 2006 5:32 pm Post subject: If ever a time I need thee....

Please pray for me. For ia ma going through many trials and tribulations in which I feel like I have no one to talk to that will understand me and what I'm going through. I pray to God and I even right Him letters at times, but sometimes I get overwhelmed with the burden of the world(metaphorically).

I am married and I have a 5 month old son. However, my husband and my mother does not get along, so everyday I feel like I'm stuck between a rock and a hard places. i always try to stay neutral in their disputes but one always think I'm siding with the other and vice-versa. This constant feud is driving me crazy and I dont how much longer I can take it. I know that their constant disputes will eventually affect my son, but he loves them both through it all.

I also have some other personal things going on in my life at this time so I really need all the prayers that I can get.

My soul is longing for a peace of mind yet I am a prisoner within my own home...

God Bless You all....

lone-traveler · Posted: Thu Nov 30, 2006 6:20 pm Post subject:

My prayers and thoughts are with you TRINity,
I don't have any small children at home. One daughter grown up.
But the family quarrel thing I have for sure...
Sometimes it's hard to stay out of it because both sides feel that they are right, and we don't want to go against either one and make any enemies.
I know how you feel...
I find in these cases the yea and nay technique works the best. And just kind of leave it at that. Otherwise you just get beat on both sides...
I got internal bruises to prove it.... Rolling Eyes

cant please them all all of the time....so just try to remain peaceful within yourself.
I'm still learning patience....hard lesson.

Hugs
Lone

TRINIty7806 · Posted: Fri Dec 01, 2006 5:34 am Post subject:

Thanks alot Lone. I really appreciate the prayers, and knowing that someone else has an idea of what I'm going through makes me feel a little better.

Thanks again and God Bless. I will remember you in my prayers.

MoJo · Posted: Fri Dec 01, 2006 6:33 am Post subject:

Hi Trinity. I'll keep you in my prayers too. Have you tried just removing yourself when it starts. If you're not around to hear it, you can't take sides. You may feel powerless to stop it, but this is the one thing that is in your control. After a few times, they may get the message. Just an idea.

Very Happy

TRINIty7806 · Posted: Fri Dec 01, 2006 11:01 am Post subject:

MoJo sometimes when they argue with each other I'm not even there. Most of the time Im at work and they call me and stress me out at work, and when I am home I'm with my son and it's too cold to just leave the house with him.

Thanks for your suggestion and your prayers I greatly appreciate it.

God bless.

lone-traveler · Posted: Sat Dec 02, 2006 5:43 pm Post subject:

I hear ya Trin...

it's been one of those days.. Rolling Eyes

I have the in-laws trying to convince me to convince their son that he needs a vacation that we can't afford.

I'm getting it from both sides..LOL...

I came to a conclusion last night. Let it go.

I got this from two guys we all know fairly well...Job and Solomon.

You can't change people they have to change themselves, and worrying is a waste of time.

I told my hubby tonight, I'm stepping out of the boxing ring, I'm not wearing the referee jacket anymore. They want to duke it out that's up to them. I'm not taking sides in the argument and the bottom line is whatever my husband says goes...

So if he says we're going on vacation then I'll pack my bags but until such a time...

talk to the hand...

I just get tired of being the volley ball...

So I'll pray that through it all we can keep our sanity..Amen?

God Bless
Lone

nobody important · Cobra Joined: 16 Nov 2006 Posts: 462

Father give your all your children wherever they maybe the strengh to carry on in face of great trial and tribulation just as you gave your son the strengh to carry on and let us remember to unite our strugles and hardships with those of Christ so that we too in him and through him may give you glory as we pick up the crosses that you have given to us.... we ask this throgh Christ our lord who lives and reigns with you and the holy spirit one God forever and Ever

Amen.

theseldomscene · Banned Joined: 17 Mar 2005 Posts: 7817

hey trin...i will be praying for GOD's peace in your life and home...GOD bless you sis... Very Happy

TRINIty7806 · Posted: Wed Dec 06, 2006 8:25 am Post subject:

Words cant explain how much I appreciate the prayers that I have received on this site, I pray that God will Bless and keep you all.