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RevJP Moderator

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Posted: Thu Apr 27, 2006 12:22 pm Post subject: |
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| Quote: | This is great; Roger is promoting celibacy and abstinance by trying to trick people into thinking that condoms don't work!
Nice try Roger!
I thought that telling a lie was a sin... | Uh.... I have two children from using condoms. Their effectiveness is about 85%, so it is indeed true that the only 100% surety is abstinence (of course condoms with Nonynoxol 9 increase the effectiveness another 10%, but the spermicide has a high allergy rate - believe me, you will know instantly if you are allergic!)
As far as oral sex is concerned, the only documented cases of HIV transmission from oral sex included some aspect of broken epidermis, or mucus membrane (cuts, sores, bad gums...) There has never been a documented case of transmission where this avenue of entrance was not involved. However, while traces of the virus are indeed present in saliva, sweat, tears, etc. they are more highly evident in *Baby Batter Projectile* and most evident in blood. _________________ JP's Mind - my blog
Psa 118:8 It is better to trust and take refuge in the Lord than to put confidence in man. |
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FFT Emperor of the Universe

Joined: 26 Mar 2005 Posts: 6104 Location: Memphis
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Posted: Thu Apr 27, 2006 1:03 pm Post subject: |
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| RevJP wrote: | | Uh.... I have two children from using condoms. Their effectiveness is about 85%, so it is indeed true that the only 100% surety is abstinence | Uh, I'm going to go out on a limb here and call BS. I've had plenty of sex, with plenty of partners, and none of them have gotten pregnant (well, one did, but not from me).
They're 100% effective if you use them properly. That means:
1. Buying fresh, and not getting the crappy free ones.
2. Maintaining lubrication.
Pre-eja.culate does not contain any semen if you haven't had an orgasm within the last few days. If you pull out (yes, with a condom), it is ridiculously unlikely that you'll get someone pregnant.
Right now, my girlfriend is on birth control and we still use condoms. |
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lone-traveler Emperor of the Universe

Joined: 02 Jul 2005 Posts: 6360 Location: USA
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Posted: Thu Apr 27, 2006 1:42 pm Post subject: |
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| FFT wrote: | | RevJP wrote: | | Uh.... I have two children from using condoms. Their effectiveness is about 85%, so it is indeed true that the only 100% surety is abstinence | Uh, I'm going to go out on a limb here and call BS. I've had plenty of sex, with plenty of partners, and none of them have gotten pregnant (well, one did, but not from me).
They're 100% effective if you use them properly. That means:
1. Buying fresh, and not getting the crappy free ones.
2. Maintaining lubrication.
Pre-eja.culate does not contain any semen if you haven't had an orgasm within the last few days. If you pull out (yes, with a condom), it is ridiculously unlikely that you'll get someone pregnant.
Right now, my girlfriend is on birth control and we still use condoms. |
Hi FFT...
now this may very well be true..of educated adults...
but consider how many kids there are out there with no money to buy fresh ones...they use whatevers available if they use them,...I don't suppose they carry a bottle of lube in their pockets, and try telling them to withdraw...unh unh...well you can tell them but at that time you think they will?
how many teenage girls you think are on birth control...how many do you think actually plan on having sex? usually it's the spur of the moment thing...they're all caught up in the moment of it. They're not mature enough to think it through rationally....
I should know...I had my daughter when I was 14
or how many boys say.."don't worry I'll pull out in time" and they don't.
I don't know FFT it's difficult either way...
teach them abstinence and they're not going to listen....teach them to use condoms...they're still not going to listen...
It is what it is...and all we can do is tell them the truth about sex outside of marriage or before they are ready to accept responsibility for their actions...
some kids get it....some kids won't....
all we can do is our best as adults to teach them to watch out for themselves.
peace
lone _________________ Joh 15:14 Ye are my friends, if ye do whatsoever I command you.
Joh 15:12 This is my commandment, That ye love one another, as I have loved you. |
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FFT Emperor of the Universe

Joined: 26 Mar 2005 Posts: 6104 Location: Memphis
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Posted: Thu Apr 27, 2006 1:45 pm Post subject: |
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| That's all well and good, l-t, but these things say nothing about the reliability of condoms. |
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lone-traveler Emperor of the Universe

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Posted: Thu Apr 27, 2006 2:32 pm Post subject: |
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what good is the reliability of the condom if you don't have the reliability in the ones actually using them??
thats like saying it's the gun that kills and not the one who wields it...
thanks for your reply FFT
peace
lone _________________ Joh 15:14 Ye are my friends, if ye do whatsoever I command you.
Joh 15:12 This is my commandment, That ye love one another, as I have loved you. |
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P1234567890 Emperor of the Universe

Joined: 11 Mar 2006 Posts: 7667 Location: Victoria, Canada
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Posted: Thu Apr 27, 2006 5:15 pm Post subject: |
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Come on guys, this whole debate is silly. Condoms work pretty darned well both for preventing pregnancy and for preventing the transmission of disease. _________________ "Men never do evil so completely and cheerfully as when they do it from religious conviction."
-Blaise Pascal
"...with or without religion, good people can behave well and bad people can do evil; but for good people to do evil -that takes religion..."
-Steven Weinberg
"I would bless my children with your destruction instead."
-Someone who shall remain anonymous. |
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P1234567890 Emperor of the Universe

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Posted: Thu Apr 27, 2006 6:59 pm Post subject: |
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And incidentally, everyone here should understand the moral implications of telling people that condoms don't work. Someone might believe Roger and stop using condoms, and directly lead to suffering and death! It is highly irresponsible to make statements like this.
I suppose this is why for once RevJP and I were on the same side of an argument! _________________ "Men never do evil so completely and cheerfully as when they do it from religious conviction."
-Blaise Pascal
"...with or without religion, good people can behave well and bad people can do evil; but for good people to do evil -that takes religion..."
-Steven Weinberg
"I would bless my children with your destruction instead."
-Someone who shall remain anonymous. |
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RevJP Moderator

Joined: 18 Apr 2003 Posts: 6908 Location: USA
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Posted: Thu Apr 27, 2006 8:17 pm Post subject: |
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Moral implications? What is more moral than abstinence?
FFT, your personal experiences aside; your statements are completely false, or do you not beleive the companies that actually produce the condoms, the wealth of medical research, and the volumes of personal testimony that states emphatically that condoms are NOT 100% effective if you use them properly? _________________ JP's Mind - my blog
Psa 118:8 It is better to trust and take refuge in the Lord than to put confidence in man. |
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FFT Emperor of the Universe

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Posted: Thu Apr 27, 2006 8:22 pm Post subject: |
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Mostly, I don't trust people to be honest about their own mistakes. I also don't expect people to understand what "ethical behavior" is.
Condoms don't break on their own. Semen can't get through them if they are intact. |
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P1234567890 Emperor of the Universe

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Posted: Fri Apr 28, 2006 3:31 am Post subject: |
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| RevJP wrote: | Moral implications? What is more moral than abstinence?
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I think that sex before marriage with someone you love is just as moral as abstinence. It isn't really an issue of morality.
In practical terms, abstinence causes you to miss out on some pretty good life experiences, not to mention that if you and your partner wait until marriage before having sex, then you are pretty much guaranteed to end up with a terrible lover.
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FFT, your personal experiences aside; your statements are completely false, or do you not beleive the companies that actually produce the condoms, the wealth of medical research, and the volumes of personal testimony that states emphatically that condoms are NOT 100% effective if you use them properly? |
Condoms are like 99% effective per year (ie. one couple out of a hundred who are using exclusively condoms for birth control will get pregnant per year). This is a BIG difference from 15% effective, which is what Roger said.
Roger's numbers were so low, that someone who listens to him might just decide not to use condoms at all, and therefore spread diseases and cause unwanted pregnancies. This is a moral issue; Roger might be helping to spread suffering. _________________ "Men never do evil so completely and cheerfully as when they do it from religious conviction."
-Blaise Pascal
"...with or without religion, good people can behave well and bad people can do evil; but for good people to do evil -that takes religion..."
-Steven Weinberg
"I would bless my children with your destruction instead."
-Someone who shall remain anonymous. |
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lone-traveler Emperor of the Universe

Joined: 02 Jul 2005 Posts: 6360 Location: USA
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Posted: Fri Apr 28, 2006 4:34 am Post subject: |
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Roger wrote:
| Quote: | | The armed forces did Condom Studies, and found them to ONLY be less than 85% Effective Against STD [ Sexually Transmitted Diseases ] |
P wrote:
| Quote: | | This is a BIG difference from 15% effective, which is what Roger said. |
need I say more?
lone _________________ Joh 15:14 Ye are my friends, if ye do whatsoever I command you.
Joh 15:12 This is my commandment, That ye love one another, as I have loved you. |
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P1234567890 Emperor of the Universe

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Posted: Fri Apr 28, 2006 5:01 am Post subject: |
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Sorry; my mistake. I stand corrected. I should try to be less lazy and actually go back and read what people write rather than relying on my distracted memory!
In any case, Roger is still wrong, and condoms are much more than 85% effective. _________________ "Men never do evil so completely and cheerfully as when they do it from religious conviction."
-Blaise Pascal
"...with or without religion, good people can behave well and bad people can do evil; but for good people to do evil -that takes religion..."
-Steven Weinberg
"I would bless my children with your destruction instead."
-Someone who shall remain anonymous. |
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lone-traveler Emperor of the Universe

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Posted: Fri Apr 28, 2006 5:39 am Post subject: |
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Jdg 18:7 Then the five men departed, and came to Laish, and saw the people that [were] therein, how they dwelt careless, after the manner of the Zidonians, quiet and secure; and [there was] no magistrate in the land, that might put [them] to shame in [any] thing; and they [were] far from the Zidonians, and had no business with [any] man.
Zep 3:5 The just LORD [is] in the midst thereof; he will not do iniquity: every morning doth he bring his judgment to light, he faileth not; but the unjust knoweth no shame.
Phl 3:19 Whose end [is] destruction, whose God [is their] belly, and [whose] glory [is] in their shame, who mind earthly things.) _________________ Joh 15:14 Ye are my friends, if ye do whatsoever I command you.
Joh 15:12 This is my commandment, That ye love one another, as I have loved you. |
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P1234567890 Emperor of the Universe

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Posted: Fri Apr 28, 2006 5:49 am Post subject: |
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I said sorry, and admitted my mistake! Would you like me to spell it out a little more?
Roger, I apologize for my mistake. I misread your post, and all of my comments about 'moral implications' were subsequently out of line. You are not going to cause suffering and death with this comment; I was wrong. I hope you accept this apology and I hope that you believe that it was an honest mistake. _________________ "Men never do evil so completely and cheerfully as when they do it from religious conviction."
-Blaise Pascal
"...with or without religion, good people can behave well and bad people can do evil; but for good people to do evil -that takes religion..."
-Steven Weinberg
"I would bless my children with your destruction instead."
-Someone who shall remain anonymous. |
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RevJP Moderator

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Posted: Fri Apr 28, 2006 11:52 am Post subject: |
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Actually it was I who said 85% effective.
| Quote: | | Condoms don't break on their own. Semen can't get through them if they are intact. | Why are you telling us? Tell the condom companies and the medical centers who do the research, they are the ones who are most likely to understand what a condom can or cannot do.
But I don't expect you to believe me, for it is me who is saying it.
I don't claim to be an expert on the subject, but I do follow the research quite closely and have for the last 20 years. I get most of my information directly from the organizations and companies that do the research so I don't spend a lot of energy seeing what the Internet has to say about it. But hey, you believe what you will, I will just pop in and point out the mistakes you make in your assertions from time to time. _________________ JP's Mind - my blog
Psa 118:8 It is better to trust and take refuge in the Lord than to put confidence in man. |
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